"And then there are those nights when all I can think of is how you held my hand and said my name. Those are memories that are worth keeping, even though it breaks my heart to remember them every now and then."
Has it ever crossed your mind that maybe you’re just too busy fantasizing about someone when the person meant for you is just a few blocks away? and that maybe you just overlook her when you were busy trying to catch the attention of someone else? I mean you’re always complaining that the person you love doesn’t love you back when in fact you also do not realize that perhaps someone out there is also going through the same phase as you. You think it hurts? Think of the person who’s hurting more just because of your insensitivity.
Ahhh love problems. Why do I even bother? 😩 Haha
Sometimes I think I’m too hard on myself. Like there are a lot of instances when I can see myself falling in love but then I brush off the idea since it’s not really part of the "plan". No, I don’t think have specific goals, but right now I have outlined my priorities. Love, as in the romantic kind of love, is nowhere in that list. Plus there are a lot of things going on in my life and I think falling in love would be so unruly. I can’t afford to get distracted. Some people have been really sweet though. And I’m thankful that I got to meet nice people in my life. But then, It still won’t be the perfect equation because I don’t think this is the right time and I don’t have the right mindset for such things. [ Equation: Right Guy + Right Mindset + Right Time = ^_____^ ]
Landi. Hahaha. K. Random post. Time to sleep. Goodnight.
Life has not always been easy, but I managed to survive. And with that, I am happy.
My name is Iny M. Montallana. I’m 17 years old. I don’t know what my name means but some people relate it to the Chinese words for “I love You” which is Wo Ai Ni. I have an older sister who just recently passed the Nursing Board exam. My Dad is an OFW working in America. My Mom, on the other hand, is a teacher and also a registered nurse. It may sound like the normal family of four, but we are nowhere near the word normal. I don’t mean it in a negative way. I just think normal would really be inappropriate to describe this family that I have. You may say unique, but that would be underrated. Maybe we’re just a contemporary family. Just a little between happy and dysfunctional.
ANONS re: LOVE LIFE.
I remember last time, someone kept on asking me about my love life and why I’m still single. And then yesterday, someone also messaged me about my love life and a guy who’s being linked with me. I don’t why you’re asking me about it. Maybe you’re interested or just bored with your life. I don’t know. Hm It’s not that I’m mad or anything. I just find it weird because I ‘m not used to people caring about those personal stuff. I’m not even famous so people should not really care about my life. HAHA.
REAL TALK: I am happy being single. And though people tease me with some of my friends, it will not change the fact that I only see them as friends. And they will only see me as a friend as well. I’m just enjoying everything that’s happening in my life. I’m meeting people and spending time with them. But falling in love is a different story. And right now, I’m not ready for those things.
The reason why people fail in their search for the right one is because they make it more about the “search” than the “love”. When you search for something, you have already set in your mind the details of what you are looking for. So instead of finding someone who would love you, you already create an image of someone whom you would love. You set standards that are so high, you’re not even sure if this person can actually exist.
You cannot plan love. Because when love is true, it just happens and usually in times when you least expect it to.
You’re my only real friend, Let’s not ruin it. -Sally, The Art Of Getting By
Perhaps everyone of us has that one friend whom we can completely trust and be comfortable with. Someone we can talk to about anything, be it personal issues or just normal chit chats. Someone who accepts us, despite our many imperfections. Someone who understands us in every way possible. Someone who will stay with us, even when our actions seem like driving them away. And someone who we can call “REAL Friend”.