ANONS re: LOVE LIFE.

I remember last time, someone kept on asking me about my love life and why I’m still single. And then yesterday, someone also messaged me about my love life and a guy who’s being linked with me. I don’t why you’re asking me about it. Maybe you’re interested or just bored with your life. I don’t know. Hm It’s not that I’m mad or anything. I just find it weird because I ‘m not used to people caring about those personal stuff. I’m not even famous so people should not really care about my life. HAHA.
Anyway, I appreciate the nice words from the anon before and the friendly advice from the anon yesterday (HAHA).

REAL TALK: I am happy being single. And though people tease me with some of my friends, it will not change the fact that I only see them as friends. And they will only see me as a friend as well. I’m just enjoying everything that’s happening in my life. I’m meeting people and spending time with them. But falling in love is a different story. And right now, I’m not ready for those things. 

The reason why people fail in their search for the right one is because they make it more about the “search” than the “love”. When you search for something, you have already set in your mind the details of what you are looking for. So instead of finding someone who would love you, you already create an image of someone whom you would love. You set standards that are so high, you’re not even sure if this person can actually exist. 

You cannot plan love. Because when love is true, it just happens and usually in times when you least expect it to. 

"I loved the notion that the day was mine to spend and I immediately decided to spend it with you"

"I loved the notion that the day was mine to spend and I immediately decided to spend it with you"

We went to the Yongdusan park earlier and saw the many #lovelocks in the place. :-)

We went to the Yongdusan park earlier and saw the many #lovelocks in the place. :-)

( 2 ) 1 year ago - Reblog  #lovelocks  #my photos  #busan  #korea  #tower  #heart  #love  #IG
You’re my only real friend, Let’s not ruin it. -Sally, The Art Of Getting By

This one’s a line from the movie we watched yesterday, The Art of Getting By. I don’t want to spoil the story (in case you haven’t watch it yet) so I’ll just focus on this line by Sally Howe. Looking at a boy-girl friendship.

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Perhaps everyone of us has that one friend whom we can completely trust and be comfortable with. Someone we can talk to about anything, be it personal issues or just normal chit chats. Someone who accepts us, despite our many imperfections. Someone who understands us in every way possible. Someone who will stay with us, even when our actions seem like driving them away.  And someone who we can call “REAL Friend”.

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(Source: littlemissinym)

"Her words passed through me as if it wasn’t even mine to begin with. Who said communication was the key to a successful relationship? Here I am face to face with the person I swore to God I loved wholeheartedly yet she feels distant. It feels like I lost her even when she’s here with me."
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"And at some point, maybe she did fall in love with you. Perhaps with how you chose your words and planned your actions or how you kept calm despite the never ending stress brought about by external factors. The little things might have already been the big things. And who knows, maybe it could have been the best time for your relationship to blossom to something better. But it didn’t happen. No matter how you try to push the thought of you getting together, you cannot take away the fact that it has already passed. It’s now in the past. If she did love you at one point, then she could have done something. She could have grabbed the opportunity to tell you how she feels. That type of love just had to require two people to make it work. It was her choice. And she didn’t choose you. It’s time to move on."
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I loved the notion that the day was mine to spend, and I immediately decided to spend it with you.

I loved the notion that the day was mine to spend, and I immediately decided to spend it with you.